John Michael Ojo
Nigerian activist, Charles Oputa, aka Charly Boy, has urged ladies to desist from seeking ready-made husbands and be supportive, noting that no man would want to lose such woman.
In an Instagram post , he stated that apart from sex most women have nothing to offer in a relationship. Hence, many relationships often grow sour.
The 71-year-old activist, added that ladies like spending unnecessarily on material things without planning for the future with their partners.
He advised that ladies should step up their games and start supporting their men physically, mentally and financially.
He said: “Many girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused to give them sex. Some girls have even turned into sex toys just to keep a man. Let me be very open here, sex might not be the reason these guys walk away.
“Remove sex from a relationship and you’ll see that most girls do not have anything else to offer their man.
”Aside from sex, what do you have to offer to a man. Can you support him spiritually? Can you support him physically and financially? How about mentally?”
“All you girls do is demand money for bags, shoes, phones, clothes, and outings making him spend unnecessarily. What are you even bringing to the table?
“Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan for his future? Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life.
“Be that woman that your man can’t afford to lose to another man. Build your man to your taste and stop looking for a ready-made husband when you’re not a ready-made wife,” he added.
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