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M. Yayale Ahmed: Filling Gaps In Nigeria’s Administrative Reform History

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By Tunji Olaopa

This piece was meant to be my address and reflection during a planned courtesy visit in 2024 to the Federal Civil Service Commission of my old boss, Mahmud Yayale Ahmed, commander of the federal republic (CFR), former Head of Service of the Federation, former SGF and Hon. Minister, Ajiyan Katagum, and Chairman of the Governing Council, Ahmadu Bello Univerity, Zaria; a visit, which objective indeed was achieved by other means. When a personality like Mahmud Yayale Ahmed decides to pay a visit to an organization like the Federal Civil Service Commission (FCSC) to honour his mentee, then such a visit is far from being a mere courtesy visit. Such visitation generates reflections and discourses, and activate possibilities. That is the kind of personality Yayale Ahmed is. And such a visit especially to the FCSC carries both the burden of administrative history and reform possibilities. Yayale Ahmed was not just my former boss, he is also a veritable mentor; I owe a significant portion of my trajectory into becoming a bureaucrat-scholar-reformer to his mentorship. He had a fundamental impact in shaping my foray into the maelstrom of public service institutional reform programme management in the federal service. Having such an old boss visit his boy at the FCSC is an event in itself, one that is sufficient to make me tremble at the possible comments I would receive.

However, when he is visiting in his capacity as the national chairman of the Council for Retired Federal Permanent Secretaries (CORFEPS), the matter becomes even more critical. CORFEPS is the association of retired administrative professionals that has been throwing the weight of its institutional memory and competences behind the ongoing efforts to transform the dwindling status and reputation of public administration and the capacity readiness of the public service in Nigeria. Thus, when CORFEPS meets FCSC, we are already not only laying the templates for all hands to be on deck, but also articulating the critical historical and administrative records that must undergird the necessity of institutionally rehabilitating Nigeria’s public administration architecture.

When CORFEPS held its maiden colloquium on 5-7 March, 2024, and had in attendance the administrative bigwigs—from HRM Olu Falae to Amb. Babagana Kingibe and, Dr. Bukar Usman, as lead speaker—the association demonstrates that the past administrative leadership cannot be retired out of the collective responsibility of institutional reform that the public administration and public service sorely need in Nigeria. Indeed, that maiden colloquium brought a new energy into the functionality of the communities of practice and service—retired heads of service and permanent secretaries at both the federal and state levels, platforms of retired directors, pensioners, Nigerian Association of Public Administration and Management (NAPAM), etc.—and the strategic and restorative responsibility for the institutional repositioning of public administration as a noble vocation in Nigeria. And the fundamental objective is clear: how the Nigerian public administration framework, and the public service system, can be reformed to jumpstart Nigeria’s strategic inclusion in the fourth industrial revolution and its implication for infrastructural development to service the wellbeing of Nigerians.

In this piece, my objective is to insert the administrative personality of Mahmud Yayale Ahmed into the reform trajectory of the Nigerian civil service system during the Olusegun Obasanjo presidency. This is with the aim of filling out some missing gaps in the reform experiment at the commencement of Nigeria’s democratic governance in 1999. His proactive role as an institutional reformer par excellence also constitutes the occasion to ask fundamental question about the capacity of the civil service system to reform itself. This will eventually not only provide a historical and administrative basis for situating his significance in Nigeria’s reform progress, but also his current role as the chairperson of CORFEPS and its ongoing efforts to backstop restorative institutional reform.

The years between 2000 and 2007 were significant in Nigeria’s administrative and reform history because they present a moment of a major paradigm shift in change management praxis that contributed a fundamental template of reform progress to Nigeria’s reform architecture and achievements. And Yayale Ahmed was right in the centre of the critical efforts to lay the foundation of a world class civil service institution for the Nigerian state. It was at a critical juncture that Yayale Ahmed took over the reins of administrative affairs of a civil service system that had weathered several reform commissions and reports meant to translate the fortunes of the system into concrete administrative advances that Nigerians can relate with in terms of service delivery. The Udoji Commission (1974), Dotun Phillips Study Team (1984) and Ayida Review Panel (1994), all attempted to ground the public service on a pedestal of managerial efficiency and effectiveness that delivers the goods and the services.

When I met Yayale Ahmed, it was right in the midst of the unfolding reform efforts at making sense of the public service system within Nigeria’s democratic experiment. He was the permanent secretary at the federal ministry of education when I was the head of the policy division, as well as the special assistant to Prof. Tunde Adeniran who later mentioned me to his successor (the late Prof. Babalola Borishade). I was later introduced by the late Prof. Akin Mabogunje to Chief Olusegun Obasanjo who then seconded me, on the strength of my articulation through a concept note of the institutional reform challenges and direction of the civil service, to serve as the technical head of the secretariat of the strategy team located within the Management Services Office. I reported directly to the permanent secretary, the late Mr. O. O. Oyelakin, who reported directly to the head of Service, Alhaji Yayale Ahmed.

Given the reputation of someone that the president, Olusegun Obasanjo, referred to as “Mr. Civil Servant,” his in-depth grounding in the dynamics of the system, as well as the crucial understanding of the democratic imperative underlying institutional change, Yayale Ahmed was able to courageously articulate a reform methodology that jumpstarted a new era of administrative reforms in Nigeria. In 2001, as the second phase of the implementation of the Ayida Report was underway, Alhaji Yayale Ahmed faced the federal executive council presided over by President Olusegun Obasanjo, and boldly asserted that the civil service possessed the sufficient resident capacity to diagnose its institutional debilitation, articulate a reform strategy and oversee its own reform. And this revolutionary declaration was coming at a time when skeptics were not sure anything good could ever come out of the civil service.
Indeed, I strongly believed that it was part of the determination to prove the strength of his conviction about the system’s capability to reform itself that facilitated the broadminded learning and proactive space that led to the institutional and professional maturation of someone like me and my eventual transformation into a bureaucrat-scholar. What I mean to say is that under Yayale Ahmed’s watch, I saw the evolution and full maturation of my growing research expertise that came at a crucial point when the diagnostic study and strategic development of the reform methodology was unfolding. No wonder therefore that it was under his ambitious, firm and visionary headship that one of the largest reform programs in the annals of change management in Nigeria was successfully implemented.

Yayale Ahmed’s stature as a public servant cannot be properly decided outside of the reform architecture during his time as the head of service. Indeed, his reputation is tied in with the establishment and fortune of the Bureau of Public Service Reform (BPSR) which is supposed to be the arrowhead of the courageous assertion that the civil service is able to diagnose and reform itself. The BPSR was established in 2003 as the lead reform implementation and monitoring coordinating agency armed with the objective of managing and sustaining service-wide reforms agenda of the Obasanjo administration, while also ensuring that the reform mandate was implemented in the Ministries, Departments and Agencies (MDAs), the operational units carrying out government business. The three major justification for the existence of the BPSR are: The need to create a clearing house, a one-stop-shop of a sort, where all stakeholders could receive information and guidance on all the reform programmes of the Federal Government; the strong conviction that the reforms objectives will not be realized in the long term, through an ad-hoc committee or task force; and the need to have an “engine room” that is enabled with the required capability and resources to leverage local and international knowledge networks and communities of public administration best practices, to support policy, institutional and governance reform processes with required expertise, and good practices on an on-going basis (http://www.bpsr.gov.ng/index.php).

However, the trajectory of the operational dynamics of the BPSR since 2007 has been less than optimal. And so, the question of whether it has been able to live up to its mandate is a difficult one to answer. And this is because of so many crippling circumstances, bureaucratic and political, that attended its operations. Since 2008, the capacity of the BPSR to manage and sustain institutional reforms has been stunted. For instance, by transferring its supervision from the Head of the Civil Service of the Federation (HCSF) to the OSGF, its mandate was though expanded from being confined solely to the core civil service rather than the wider public service, but at that it lost the required professional supervision it needs so badly to function. And it also implies that it would henceforth be managed as an appendage of the OSGF rather than as an active player in the few significant initiatives that have taken place in the civil/public service since then.

Reform efforts before the BPSR have always been hampered by an oscillation between comprehensiveness and selectivity in the choice of methodology for pushing reform through. And that indecisiveness also played out within the operational dynamics of the BPSR. But then the many attempts at pushing the BPSR into strategic irrelevance could not diminish a paradigmatic reform methodology: there was a decisive transition away from a decade of episodic structural review of the civil service system to a methodological perception of administrative reform as one trajectory of continuous learning and incremental improvement. And this is where the BPSR proved its most fundamental importance in providing the organizing framework for enhancing this paradigmatic reform methodology. It did this by developing a generic guideline for restructuring, streamlining and monitoring the operational bases of the MDAs.

Pilot MDA reforms were carried out as the basis for measuring and documenting the administrative challenges confronted by the public service that undermine its performance efficiency. The pilot study also enabled the scaling up of the reform implementation strategy to other MDAs at: (a) service-wide systemic reform level, (b) the MDAs’ specific level which entails the implementation of performance improvement plans and the deepening and consolidation of reforms as it concerns cross-cutting reform programs with instruments such as challenge and performance improvement funds, and (c) the implementation of such reform programs as pension reform, national health insurance scheme, statistical reform, pay reform, SERVICOM, to name just a few.

It was therefore broad-based analyses of the fundamental assumptions, presuppositions, indications, deductions and findings from the pilot MDAs study that generated the initiatives for designing and firming up the irreducible national strategy for public service reform (NSPSR). The document constitutes a fundamental reform blueprint for articulating the trajectory of reform management in Nigeria. The significance of the NSPSR derives from the host of reform initiatives and achievements that its methodological emergence made possible, especially post-Yayale Ahmed. I could mention a few. There was the finalization of the African Public Service Charter that encompass a continental administrative blueprint around which the NSPSR could also be mainstreamed. There was also a concerted and genuine effort to resurrect the National Association for Public Administration and Management (NAPAM) which fell through because of a lack of push-through by the bureaucratic leadership. We cannot but mention the service-wide significance of the tenure policy and the concern to contain the exploding but unsustainable institutional redundancies that birthed the Oronsaye panel on the rationalization of agencies and parastatals that became a poster initiative for the post-Obasanjo reform era. That reform policy is still the focal point of every effort to deal with the cost of governance problem that bedevils the public service. We must also signal the introduction of the ministerial scorecard as a managerial strategy for performance management under the Goodluck Jonathan administration. This is complemented by other initiatives like online training programme which has been expanded into the formidable Leadership Enhancement and Development Programme (LEAD-P).

In retrospect, the courage displayed by Yayale in insisting that the civil service possesses the capacity to reform itself, and the series of administrative incidences that attended the BPSR’s effort to championing that argument, only makes the issue even more cogent. All across the world, there is healthy scepticism around the possibility of a bureaucracy leading its own administrative reform. And the jury is still out on whether the Yayale Ahmed’s leadership of the civil service was able to undermine that skepticism enough given the undercurrent of the battle-royal between the federal service and the economic management team during the President Obasanjo second-term. And this generates more questions and discourses that public administration theorists and institutional reformers in Nigeria cannot run away from. Institutional reform in Nigeria always appears Sisyphean, as if the reformers are confronted with the task of rolling the boulder of administrative reform up a hill only to watch it roll back down perpetually. So, why is the task of institutional reform a series of motions without many substantive movements? In concrete terms, why is it the case that despite the numerous service-wide reform initiatives from 1999 to date, the federal civil service system is still, on balance, progressively declining in some critical performance indicators and parameters that overall, limit its capability readiness to sustain service delivery to Nigerians?

Jean-Baptiste Alphonse Karr, the French satirist, once remarked: ‘The more things change, the more they stay the same.” In change management terms, this is a crippling observation that not only inhibits the capacity of the system to backstop Nigeria’s democratic governance, but also glosses over, in an unfair manner, the enormous and paradigmatic efforts of institutional reformers like my old boss, Yayale Ahmed. I am however optimistic that Nigeria’s change management discourse will receive a new lease of life. For one, Alhaji Yayale Ahmed is not one to give up easily. His chairmanship of CORFEPS is just one significant indication of that. Second, the collaboration between CORFEPS and the Federal service, if concretized, portends a fundamental direction that brings the institutional experiences of retired permanent secretaries and heads of service in a critical conversation with successive serving administrative leadership in time and space to move the civil service forward. This is why I am excited that my old boss had chosen to reach out to his mentee at the FCSC the way he did.

. Olaopa is Professor of Public Administration, and the Chairman,
Federal Civil Service Commission,
Abuja.

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Professor Nuhu Yaqub, 1951 To 2025: The Departure Of A Great Man

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December 8, 2024: Professor Nuhu Yaqub was with us in Abuja, in the company of great minds—Jibrin Ibrahim, Yakubu Ochefu, Chris Ogbogbo, Aisha Maikudi, Chido Onuma, Tunji Olaopa, Paul and Paula Edeh, Adagio, Okello Oculi, John Odah and many more. We did a mini-seminar on Jibrin Ibrahim. I invited Nuhu Yaqub to speak, and he gave a great speech, starting with his introduction to Marxism. Days after, we spoke twice on the phone. An active and healthy man was gone within three days of sickness, leaving us and the world on Saturday, January 4. I was hit by his departure with an emotional anguish that is taking a longer time to heal.

I have known him for decades. As the Vice-Chancellor of the University of Abuja, he invited me twice to give two Keynote Addresses. As the pioneer Vice-Chancellor of Sokoto State University, he and Professor Malami Buba, his Deputy, invited me to give the University’s first Distinguished Lecture. We exchanged family visits in Austin and Abuja. A candid man, he did not require efforts for him to stay in mind on all aspects of national issues.

The phenomenon of death remains one mystery that humans, and maybe all living creatures, may not understand for its strange nature. At the superficial level, death signifies the finitude to everything living, and it is in this category of interpretation that we humans lurk ourselves, not because we are sometimes not inclined to see beyond the anguish that is brought when we lose people who are dear to us, but because the human mind is not conditioned to process the shock, the urgency, and the forever delinking which occurs when we lose individuals or cherished pets.

Death is a leveller, for it takes the lives of everything without concerns about the irreparable damage that it does to the people behind it. Losing a giant intellectual and humanitarian energy such as Professor Yaqub has dug yet another deep hole in our national heart and left a hollow space that may be difficult to fill. We feel this way because we consider his demise not as a transition into another phase of human existence, which it originally signifies, but as a finitude to the material importance for which the man is known to his immediate family, academic family and national brotherhood.

To say that I am overwhelmed is to mildly describe my emotional state at the breaking of the news that the selfless individual has passed on. It is such a case for me because, in academic brotherhood, it is not only difficult to come across people genuinely committed to a lifelong philosophy, but it is almost impossible to come across individuals who have the mental energy or the political goodwill to effect changes when they could walk their talk.

But then I am only consoled by the understanding that although Professor Yaqub’s transition might have done unprintable damage to our emotional health because of the various shared ideas, values and virtues, his passing on has foregrounded the irreplaceable importance of committing oneself to a meaningful philosophy. It is on this basis that I highlight the exceptional contributions that this individual made to the human world before his transition.

As a political scientist, it has been established that Nuhu Yaqub devoted his intellectual ambition towards the actualization of better national conditions by facilitating a radical evolution of Nigeria’s political system in ways that address its specific and unique peculiarities. Aware of its diversity, the outstanding Professor had campaigned for inclusive leadership to be embraced by the political players in the country in the spirit of creating a haven for the citizens and forging a country that is capable of answering to the wishes and aspirations of everyone.

To become a national hero in my book, what matters is to demonstrate some consistency in one’s philosophical conviction as long as it does not endanger the human family. I can say confidently that this man was not only consistent about his conviction but also invested in it in every sense. I remember clearly how he staunchly argued and equally supported courses of action that would see to the rapid departure from the colonially imposed political culture in exchange for one that would fix the country and free people from the shackles of ideological suppression.
Unlike many other academics, Yaqub was very practical with his solutions, especially because he understood that the possibility of achieving greatness lies especially in the ability to be deliberate and disciplined. Perhaps this would explain why he irrevocably supported the idea of clinical scholarship, research, and intellectual engagements that would lead to the enthronement of an academic culture that is both vibrant and resilient. He has never refused to educate anyone who cares to listen that research engagement is at the centre of Nigeria’s and Africa’s political transformation, revealing why it is dangerous to compromise on such a commitment.

Would it not be surprising that such a man was foresighted in his examination of our basic sociological and sociopolitical fate, so much so that he campaigned that education was a necessity for everyone if the country would evolve to become a force in the global society? He was motivated to say this because he understood the underlying potential that is lurking in the human and natural resources that the country is blessed with.

To become an important force in the world, people have always been required to evaluate events from an impartial angle, and that can only be possible on the occasion that people are given a solid education. It is understandable because many issues that are causing problems in the country are founded on the beliefs that are imposed by individuals who constantly take away the right to education of their citizens.

You would begin to understand and not underestimate his position when you appreciate the place of education in the formulation of policies that are needed for the transformation of a country. I have held numerous dialogues with him, and at every opportunity, no matter how little, he would strike up conversations about national issues that are pivotal to the country’s civilizational advancement. In any case, what dominates such conversations is that education is needed in policy formulation because it is through policies that humans transfer their refined ideas to organized guidelines to be used in guiding the decisions of the government to achieve great outcomes. If people are uneducated, there is a possibility that they will be micromanaged by others who have that advantage. This is the fear of the righteous man who committed to such a just cause. He has maintained over time that when people are intellectually refined enough to contribute to the debate of welfare improvement, especially as it relates to them, they would, therefore, be encouraged to participate in the affairs of the country if they are given the fair atmosphere where they can thrive without any external threat.

Away from the strictly professional life that this successful man lived, it would be strange that people of his educational and administrative stature still maintained a life of humility and embrace, as he did not consider himself as being superior to people on account of his giant strides in life. Evidence of his selflessness and humility abounds as people with whom he shared one thing or the other have attested to how he opened his space to anyone who wants to experience it.
For a man who was erstwhile Vice Chancellor of the University of Abuja, the information about how to manage opposing opinions to drive the monumental changes that are recorded in the academic institution today cannot cease to amaze people. More than anything, they are indicators that he was professionally inclined and discharged his very responsibility with a great sense of commitment and demeanour. It cannot be overemphasized how his simple nature infected many of the people who have come across the man in different spheres of existence. I cannot stress enough how his sudden demise has brought some hard reality that is difficult to swallow.

How else can we describe the individual as great, especially in the course of academic liberation, if not through a series of great initiatives he made to improve the conditions of things? It was under him as a Vice Chancellor that the University moved out from their temporary site to the permanent one, which required a great deal of sacrifice from members of staff, and he championed it. Not minding the personal and professional costs that this demanded, Professor Yaqub became an important figure in shaping the university. It is no coincidence that his death has sparked a national reflection as people who have either benefited from the largesse of his professional responsibilities or those who had personal relationships with him continue to reveal how his demise has become a national melancholy.

It is understandable for them to feel this way. I have become so engrossed in his scholarly interests and contributions that his sudden departure to the great beyond has dug a hole in my heart.
اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لَهُ وَارْحَمْهُ وَأَدْخِلْهُ فِي جَنَّتِكَ
Allahummaghfir lahu warhamhu wa adkhilhu fee jannatika.

Translation: O Allah, forgive him, have mercy on him, and admit him into Your Paradise.

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Much Ado About Defamation

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By Hope O’Rukevbe Eghagha

The Nigerian public space is currently dominated by a defamation brouhaha, with some alluding to a David and Goliath scenario, with either a fight-to-finish or a crushing, decimation outcome. The matter is subjudice; so, I am not going to dwell on specifics. The insinuations in the ongoing case are not healthy, and as some have suggested, all parties in the conflict would certainly go away with bloodied noses when the dust finally settles! My thesis statement is this: the pungent odour which follows defamation suits does not easily go away. In the court of public opinion, David is always right in the fight against Goliath.

Defamation! A powerful world. Even scary. To be defamed could cause one great embarrassment, especially if one is a public figure. Defamation is defined as ‘communication to a third party of false statements about a person that injure the reputation of or deter others from associating with that person’. It is also defined as ‘when a person makes an untrue statement about another individual, either verbally (slander) or in writing (libel), to a third party and the statement causes the individual damage’. To win a defamation case, one must prove that there was a false statement, that the statement caused one injury, that the statement was published, and that the statement was not made under privilege.

One of the earliest cases of defamation in North America happened in 1656. One Sarah Bridgman accused her neighbour Mrs. Mary Parsons of witchcraft. Can you beat that? Witchcraft. Mary’s husband sued Sarah for defamation and the court ruled in Mary’s favour and she was asked to make a public apology, pay a fine, and court costs. It is said that though Mary was cleared again twenty years later of witchcraft, rumours of witchcraft continued to follow the couple even after they moved to another city. This case reminds me of two good friends in my secondary school days who fell out and one accused the other of witchcraft. Both ladies were said to have gone to a ‘babalawo’s’ house to disprove or prove witchcraft. The story is that the baba confirmed witchcraft in one of them, an accusation which she denied. The smell of witchcraft went with the beautiful Miss A throughout our school days. Indeed, all friends avoided her till we left school. I do not know whether this foul accusation is what has prevented Ms A from featuring in any post-secondary school event, some forty-five years after the incident. No one seems to know Miss A’s location.

In 2022, movie star Johnny Depp sued his ex-wife actress Amber Head because she defamed him in a Washington Post article in which she insinuated that her ex had been a violent spouse. She didn’t mention his name but anyone who read the essay knew that her husband was the target and subject. Depp lost out on several job opportunities on account of the article. His suit in a Virginia court was successful. The jury awarded ten million dollars ‘punitive and compensatory’ costs against Amber because it was established that ‘portions of the article were defamatory to the plaintiff’.

In Britain, actor Tom Cruise was the victim of libel, this time by a newspaper, The Daily Express which alleged that ‘Tom Cruise got married to Nicole Kidman because they wanted to mask their sexuality and of course adhere to the Church of Scientology, who had apparently arranged the whole thing’. The newspaper also alleged that Tom was ‘impotent and sterile! How could they prove that these hurtful and damaging allegations were true? In the end, the newspaper apologised to the couple and paid an ‘undisclosed six-figure sum.

In 2022, a Federal University Dutse student Aminu Adamu Mohammed was arrested after the spouse of then President Muhammadu Buhari, Hajia Aisha filed a complaint to the police alleging defamation. Aminu had tweeted a message which the complainant found uncomplimentary. The international outcry on social media brought undue attention to the presidency, and everyone wondered why Madam did not ignore that post. Aminu was detained for two weeks in harsh conditions. Aminu was released in December of 2022 on compassionate grounds after he apologised to the complainant. It is interesting that NANS demanded an apology from Hajia Buhari for beating up their member while in custody!

In the case of Bakare and Ishola, two men who were involved in a fight, one of the parties was found guilty of libel because in the heat of an argument, the defendant had called the other in the presence of observers, ‘a thief, ex-convict, and someone who just came out of prison’. The court held that the words indeed were ‘vulgar abuse!

To be defamed one must have a reputation, a name. Obscure people do not respond to defamation. Some people are so embarrassed and humiliated by such libelous statements that they simply disappear from their social circles. For example, in a small group or association, a married woman who is rumoured to be having affair with another man cannot wash away the dirt-image, even if the allegation is not factual. Some just melt away, nursing their wounds. In our local social, cultural, and religious communities, people fight slandering allegations through established channels. Most do not go to court. A prolonged court matter could expose more terrible things or bring the whole matter to the attention of those who were not aware of the matter ab initio.

The emergence of social media has introduced new dimensions to defamation, libel, and slander, especially by faceless persons who generate false information and have others make such posts viral. There have been too many reputations ruined by false information circulated on social media. A slandered person does not find it funny.

The laws on libel are designed to protect the innocent. In our circumstances, political office holders are fair game for slanderous and libelous statements. There are always exaggerations and distortions in allegations against the high and mighty in society. The political atmosphere permits it. However, in Nigeria, the powerful persons in power can use state machinery against anybody who dares to criticise them or call them to account. Decree 4 of 1984 promulgated by Major General Buhari, stated that ‘any person who publishes in any form, whether or written or otherwise, any message, rumour or statement or report which is false in any material particular or which is calculated to bring the federal military government … to ridicule shall be guilty’.

The best advice is: truth is generally the best vindication against slander. Some people have heeded the advice by a philosopher: if evil is spoken of you and it be true, correct yourself; if it be a lie, laugh at it!

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We Listen, We Don’t Judge

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I bring you greetings from Lagos. As a street slogan collector, I have many new ones, but my favourite so far is: We listen, We don’t judge!

Over the years, human communities have significantly transformed in many aspects to suit the times and the needs of their people. We have seen various nuances come up and go based on events, storylines and others seeking to pass a message or, in some cases, just for fun. Even though most nuances are better explained as trends may have started for fun, it is impossible to dissociate key lessons away from these trends. They can be in the form of words, a specific action, a mode of dressing, signs or based on the peculiarities of the society at that time.

Interestingly, social trends in today’s world are more than a fleeting phenomenon. They are the heartbeat of our societies and a mirror showing the reflections of our collective desires, fears, and values as a community. These trends, having emerged from the confluence of societal and cultural shifts, technological advancements, and human experience, have shaped how we interact and perceive the world. At their core, we get insights into societal priorities, which lend a voice to movements and values that might otherwise remain silent due to prejudices.

From the hashtags that publicise them to the causes and challenges therein, humans have been able to bring their various communities together with these trends, which serve as both catalysts for change and indicators of the state of our humanity. Nigerians naturally are used to lining behind hashtags that stand to make big changes in the communities. The publicity and support make these tags trend and gain nationwide adoption. An example is the famous EndSars hashtags, BringBackOurGirls, and many others of diverse natures.

In the final quarter of 2024, just as it happens annually, a social media trend that gripped Nigerians with equal parts fascination, excitement and unease emerged. The trend that came under the tag “We Listen, We Don’t Judge” came at a time when the media space was just relaxing from the loads of trends ongoing on TikTok specifically and other social media platforms. It came at a time when the nation was wading through the forest of economic crises amidst hunger and untold hardship. For many Nigerians, there were no assurances for a “Detty December” or “Oblee”, and then from nowhere out of the creative community of TikTokers came a trend that made Nigerians forget their worries at least momentarily.

It came as the digital confession of our times. Here, people share real-time or anonymous tales of their past actions, which sometimes are uplifting and, other times, downright scandalous. The idea was to pass a message or make revelations without expecting to be “dragged” online, especially as these trends became popular on Twitter (x), where everyone collects wotowoto. On one end of the spectrum, there were stories of kindness and rare humanity that reminded us of the goodness still alive in our society and at the same time, there were revelations that made jaws drop and made the audience question the decaying moral values in our communities’ betrayals, malicious revenge, workplace sabotage, and even outright wickedness.

Initially, the trend came out as a harmless outlet for self-expression without biases. After all, who does not want a space to vent without the fear of being dragged? However, on deeper reflection, listening without judging revealed something unsettling about us as people in the contemporary world. Perhaps due to the acclaimed wokeness we take pride in. The revelations came in the form of a growing comfort with flaunting moral decadence in public space under the cloak of anonymity. This boldness begs the question: Have we lost the value of shame, or are we simply living in an era where anything goes as long as it’s “trending”?

The genesis of “We Listen, We Don’t Judge” is likely tied to our society’s harsh judgment culture. We are Africans, and we are quick to import our biases into situations. Just a few days ago, the internet came to life when a popular influencer got the dragging he deserved over an alleged financial anomaly. It turned out to be a prank, as he explained. The quick reactions from netizens showed how fast Nigerians are getting online savages. In essence, people are very much tired of being crucified for their mistakes and missteps. Expressing themselves with anonymity offers a chance to share without fear of backlash, to exhale deeply and let out those pent-up confessions. But as much as this trend feels liberating, it is equally a dangerous double-edged sword. It is like spilling secrets into the wind without having control over where it lands. For every person who uses the platform to unburden their soul, there are others whose stories glorify lousy behaviour, normalising what should remain unacceptable.

If, for a moment, we choose to justify the displays of successes via the means, we should remember that social media, in its entirety, is already filled with “hard work pays” narratives that border on vanity. The intention might be to inspire, but in a society where envy and bitterness are as common as roadside suya, oversharing your wins can easily backfire. Hence, there is a need to talk about the importance of “keeping a concealed mouth.”

Several old Nigerian adages teach concealment even though we shy away from them. These adages have served those in the past, and they all serve us equally if we take caution. This is the truth we have been running from. It isn’t brilliant that one shares every accomplishment online with the world. Truthfully, success is sweet, and sharing one’s journey can motivate others, but there should be a thin line between inspiration and incitement. This is where we need to draw the line.

Stories abound of people whose publicised wins brought them unnecessary trouble: friendships turned sour, families torn apart by envy, or worse, becoming targets for theft or crime, especially at a time when the nation is struggling to keep criminals at bay. Invariably, silence in a society where not everyone wishes you well becomes a virtue and is not only golden. Secrecy, in most cases, is not deceit. It is tantamount to wisdom. It is the understanding that not every part of one’s life is for public consumption. Personal wins should be celebrated with those who genuinely care for you. It is better to share lessons and not brag about wins and accomplishments. Putting this into practice requires adopting the pause button strategy. Before anything, ask yourself: what values does your story hold, or are you just feeding the noise? If it’s the latter, it’s better to hold your peace.

Going back to the confessions. It would be unfair to outright disparage them and label those who make them with names. However, it is important to clarify one or two aspects here. At first, there’s nothing wrong with acknowledging one’s mistakes. In fact, acknowledging them is a sign of growth. Even at that, confession without accountability is like shouting into a space. It changes nothing and helps no one. When people confess to malicious acts without remorse or a desire to change, it only creates a pattern and becomes performative, passing the wrong ideas to the masses. Worse still, it sets a precedent that it is okay to do wrong if you can laugh about it later.

Our society cares about morals and holds specific values in high esteem. As 2025 begins, let us talk about these trends. For those sharing success stories, adopting a principle of humility and discretion will go a long way in protecting the overall essence of putting the stories out. Your story should be about the lessons learned, not just the accolades earned. On the other hand, individuals who post past misdeeds should pick cues and shift the focus from airing dirty laundry to showcasing transformation and growth. Remember, we are in a digitised world, and the internet does not forget. Most importantly, our societies need more stories of redemption, kindness, and positive vibes and less romanticising of bad behaviour. These would transform greatly into the values we desire as a community and influence the qualities of positivity we embrace as people.

No doubt, the “We Listen, We Don’t Judge” trend has taught us two things we should hold onto dearly. The first is the reality that people are so desperate for spaces to be heard without condemnation. Secondly, society needs to strike a balance between openness and restraint. Especially as we all agree now that there is strength in understanding when to speak and when to remain silent. As we move into a new year, it is essential to channel our energies wisely. Share with purpose, not for clout. Protect your peace and your progress by keeping some things sacred. After all, the loudest achievements often come from the quietest corners. In 2025, may our voices and actions reflect a society that values growth, wisdom, and intentionality.

Remember, not every gist dem dey carry for head. Sometimes, the real power lies in silence.

Happy 2025!

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